“Arc of a love affair” encompasses ideal relationship

"Arc of a love affair" encompasses ideal relationship

Adena Chung

It’s hard to write about this without sounding totally
disenchanted, pessimistic, disillusioned, jaded. I admit I feel a
little bit of all of those, but not enough to have given up the
idea of the perfect relationship, and even marriage.

It’s just that I don’t know what to think when a married guy
with children tries to get it on with my friend at a party in his
own house with his wife upstairs. And I’m inclined to think that
maybe this other couple I know shouldn’t be together anymore if
they aren’t getting along, even if they have three children and
they’ve been together more than 20 years now. They’ve exhausted
therapy and marriage counseling and the woman’s fantasies of
killing her husband have inspired her to buy a gun. I’m not naming
any names.

The biggest problem I have with relationships is that I don’t
know how to be free in one. I haven’t seen one where I think the
two people are totally, completely free beings, together because of
true love for each other. There’s always so much crap that gets in
the way.

I used to think that when women said "all men are assholes" they
were just bitter because they had a bad relationship with some
loser jerk like Thelma’s husband, someone they stayed with for all
the wrong reasons because of their own insecurities, and that would
never happen to me. That was before my marathon man courted someone
else for about six weeks behind my back and then made me feel like
a paranoid, neurotic, insecure bitch for speaking my hunch about
the whole thing.

I definitely stayed in that relationship for wrong reasons.
Sure, there was lots of love, fun and caring; but I couldn’t leave
because I was afraid of the new leaf. All that fear and insecurity
is pretty fucked up. Where did I learn to be so weak, when did I
forget about me?

Yeah, relationships can really tweak a person. I know this from
lots of horror stories, friends and personal experience. But they
can also be really great. I think. I’m not as sure about this
because I haven’t seen a relationship that lives up to my ideals
yet. My ideals might be unrealistic, though. You be the judge:
total freedom of thought, action, movement, and growth; total
commitment; companionship without obligation; and great sex.

Actually, I think this is possible and I have even experienced
it ­ for a day. I believe in the phrase "the arc of a love
affair" in Paul Simon’s "Hearts and Bones." One-night stands don’t
really fit the paradigm, but most relationships can’t escape it,
unless, of course someone dies, like in the film "Love Story." Even
in marriages the couple comes to the end of the arc of their love
affair and their relationship takes on a different meaning or
purpose. It evolves, or it suffers and dies.

I have serious problems with commitment and marriage as it is
traditionally upheld. Commitment as something to strive for or work
on in order to maintain is bogus and artificial. There is no such
thing as a conscious commitment. It just happens. A person will be
committed until he or she doesn’t feel committed anymore, so
there’s no point in trying to make a commitment. The sense of
commitment should be a by-product, not a cause or motivating
factor. Nothing’s going to make that happen.

I also think the marriage ceremony and contract is b.s. Being
wed by a legal or religious authority betrays the true intent of a
marriage, which is a kind of commitment independent of any third
party. If being traditionally married to someone makes it harder
for you to jump ship when things are rough, then the relationship
relies on an extrinsic factor, be it social, legal, financial or
religious, which implies that you are married for the wrong
reasons.

I’m not sure if I believe in "’til death do us part" either.
It’s that "arc" and I’m not so sure if it’s better to stay and work
on something if it really sucks. Yeah, yeah, who knows down the
line, after the turbulent waters, things might be peachy. Well, the
argument works both ways.

Marriage, ideally, should be an acknowledgment between two
people who share an understanding that they feel "meant to be."
Exchange of vows, rings are good, but not necessary, and that’s
it.

"Annie Hall," one of my all-time favorite movies, pretty much
sums it all up for me, especially the joke that Alvy Singer refers
to at the end. I’ll paraphrase: a guy goes to the doctor and tells
him that his brother needs help. Doc asks what’s wrong and the guy
says his brother thinks he’s a chicken. When the doctor asks why he
doesn’t just send him to a psychiatrist and fix the problem, the
guy replies, "Well, because I need the eggs."

Relationships are crazy and sometimes they don’t make sense, but
we seek them and stay in them because of the amazingly wonderful
things they afford us when it is good ­ the eggs.

Right now I have a crush on this guy. I shouldn’t call it a
crush because I know him and it’s more than infatuation. I believe
in him, like I believe in myself. I feel strong around him, and
he’s got this love of life, he gets high on it like I do. There’s
nothing between us right now, though, and I think I’ll leave it
that way.

Don’t get me wrong, I want it like I can taste it sometimes, I
fantasize wildly while standing right next to him trying my best to
exude vibes of friendship. But I’m not going to try to make
anything happen because I don’t have to be in a relationship, and I
like entertaining the notion of "us." It’s nice to have something
good to daydream about.

Chung is a senior English student.

W. soccer drops heated match to Gauchos

W. soccer drops heated match to Gauchos

UCLA’s unbeaten

streak ends at four

as UCSB wins 2-0

By Hye Kwon

Even though they played superbly under a scorching sun, the UCLA
women’s soccer team suffered a 2-0 loss to UC Santa Barbara on
Sunday afternoon.

"This was the best match we’ve played all season," UCLA head
coach Joy Fawcett. "We created a lot of chances, but we just didn’t
finish plays."

The opportunities to score were abundant for the Bruins, as they
out shot the Gauchos 16-9. UCLA, who were ranked ninth in the
western region going into the match, now has a record of 7-3-2.

The first Gaucho goal came at the 37th minute of the match when
midfielder Renee France kicked the ball into the empty net after a
missed save attempt by UCLA goalie Gretchen Overgaard. France’s
goal ended Overgaard’s shut-out streak at four matches.

The start of the second half marked a fierce attempt on the part
of the Bruins to score an equalizer, and their effort was nearly
awarded.

At 50:08, sophomore forward Christine Sanders had the ball five
yards in front of the goal. She made a turn around kick which was
knocked away by the UCSB goalie.

Feeling the need for more offensive fire power, Fawcett put
defender Sue Skenderian, who is usually the last line of defense
for the Bruin defensive, in the middle of the field for better ball
control at the center line.

This strategy backfired on the Bruins at the 85th minute of the
match when UCSB’s Felicia Hayes scored to put the match away for
good.

"We were losing, so it was better than sitting back," Fawcett
said. "We probably were caught off guard but (Hayes) is really
fast."

Even though the fruits of her labor were not properly rewarded,
Skenderian enjoyed her work in the midfielder position.

"I think it’s good to change it up sometimes," Skenderian said.
"I got a couple of assists last year (under similar conditions),
and I was hoping (Fawcett) would do it in this match."

The match was played at the peak of the day as far as the
temperature goes, and at game time, it was well over 90 degrees.
According to Skenderian, the weather was a big factor of the
match.

"Everyone was pretty much tired at the end of the match,
especially with the heat and everything," she said.

This match also featured the strong play of the sophomores Kelly
Robson, Sanders, and Marisol Meinhart, who are often overshadowed
by the team’s fabulous freshmen.

"A lot of our good play (today) was due to our sophomores," UCLA
assistant coach Merry Eyman said. "I thought (Meinhart) played very
well today."

Despite getting off on the wrong foot in this current five-game
home stand, Fawcett still feels confident about this young
team.

"We’re getting better every match," she said. "I’m not
disappointed at this loss at all."

Volleyball thrashes Cal at Harmon Gym

Volleyball thrashes Cal at Harmon Gym

Bears hit just .020

as No. 3 UCLA

wins in one hour

By Eric Branch

Daily Bruin Staff

BERKELEY — The third-ranked UCLA women’s volleyball team rolled
to its 12th straight victory in Harmon Gym Friday night, crushing
the California Golden Bears, 15-1, 15-6, 17-15, in just over an
hour.

"We played extremely well in the first two games," UCLA head
coach Andy Banachowski said. "We moved people around a little in
game three and that created some confusion."

Senior outside hitter Annett Buckner had a field day with the
smallish Cal block, tallying 17 kills with a .467 hitting
percentage. Buckner’s smashes accounted for four of the Bruins’
first six points.

The momentum from the 10-minute, first-game dismantling carried
to the second game as the Bruins raced out to a 13-3 advantage.
Johnson collected five of her eight kills on the night in the
second frame.

The Bruins, statistically one of the top blocking teams in the
nation, stuffed the Bears a mere seven times on the night, but they
held Cal to a paltry .020 hitting percentage by coming up with 44
digs.

"We really hustled tonight," Banachowski said. "I was pleased
with the effort, we weren’t looking ahead to Stanford."

Banachowski employed a different look in the third game,
substituting freshman setter Kim Coleman for starter Kelly
Flannigan and letting freshman outside hitter Kara Milling handle
some setting duties.

The result was a third game that saw the Bears battle from a
14-11 deficit to 15 apiece. However, junior middle blocker Michelle
Mauney served an ace and the Bears were called for a lift to end
the match.

Coming out festivities hope to dispel stigmas

Coming out festivities hope to dispel stigmas

Bruins battle "closet" stereotypes during week of
celebration

By Julie Ann Silva

Daily Bruin Senior Staff

David Bain doesn’t wear leather, women’s underpants or conical
bras. His penis is not pierced, nor is any other body part. Bain is
gay. He is testimony that such stereotypes don’t hold true.

Bain could well be the poster boy for the week-long celebration
of National Coming Out Day that began Sunday. For Bain and hundreds
of other gay, lesbian and bisexual students, faculty and staff, the
week is a time to battle "The Closet," a metaphor for homosexuals
who feel trapped and afraid to express their sexuality.

"(National Coming Out Day) symbolizes a freedom from oppression
both from society and from the self. It’s liberating one’s self
from the confines that we place upon ourselves by feeling
oppressed, that we grow up with and that society puts around us,"
said Bain, a third-year student majoring in theater arts.

"For some people, coming out just means coming out to a neighbor
or a friend. For others, it means coming out simply by looking in
the mirror and saying they’re gay," Bain added. "It has a personal,
intimate meaning depending on the person."

The time is a powerful one, students said.

"National Coming Out Day and week is the (time) where I think a
lot of gay, lesbian and bisexual people gather the courage to come
out to somebody ­ maybe their parents, maybe a friend, maybe a
roommate. There’s a tremendous amount of support on that day
especially and all around the week," said Dan Quick, an undeclared
sophomore.

"It’s the intense day of the year where people say, ‘Fuck it,
I’m going to come out. There’s enough of this shit in my life, it’s
time to let everybody know who I am,’" Quick said.

More than 5,000 hours of volunteer time went into planning the
22 events ­ ranging from sporting tournaments to high
intensity rallies ­ scheduled to take place at UCLA throughout
the week. The sheer volume and intensity of the campus coming out
day activities captured the attention of the National Coming Out
Day office, a group committed to promoting the holiday nationwide.
This year, the organization has chosen UCLA as its focus
program.

Participants intend to rock the UCLA campus with information on
the gay, lesbian and bisexual community and increase visibility of
the homosexual population.

"Stereotypes need to be broken so I do hope that all faculty,
staff and students attend," said Al Aubin, a career counselor at
the Placement and Career Planning Center. "The program is not only
for gays and lesbians, it’s to educate everyone."

Students passionately testified to the diversity within the
community and the need to build bridges between themselves and the
heterosexual population.

"People of different sexual orientations … are not a
homogenous mix, we’re a wonderful mix of orientations, races,
religions and cultures," Bain said.

Breaking stereotypes during the holiday festivities ranked high
as a priority for many students.

"I think the actions on campus are going to help people who
aren’t aware of homosexuals or may have a stereotypical or negative
view of them realize that they’re your neighbors, your friends,
your cousins, your bosses, your fellow students. The (programs) can
only provoke thought and questioning ­ and hopefully
understanding in the end," Bain said.

One of the most important things activism can accomplish is to
give people who are in the closet a chance and a reason to come out
and tell others that they are gay, lesbian or bisexual ­ that
they enjoy it, find pride in it and have a definite place in
society, Bain added.

To aid students, staff and faculty in their quest for
visibility, planners have recruited many high profile members of
the gay, lesbian and bisexual community to participate in the UCLA
campus events. Guests will include actress Amanda Bearse, swimmer
Bruce Hayes and state assembly candidate Sheila Kuehl.

"I think its great that UCLA has become a model university (for
the gay, lesbian and bisexual community)," said Hayes , a 1984 Gold
medalist and Bruin alumnus.

"I’m very proud my alma mater is (hosting this program) on such
a grand scale," he added.

Unlike many of today’s Bruins, Hayes did not come out during his
years as a political science major here.

"I was at UCLA over 10 years ago. It was harder to think about
coming out. It’s still hard now, but it was harder then," Hayes
explained. "A lot has changed in 10 years. The environment is
better now, and with events like this, hopefully it will continue
to get better.

"If I were in college now I would come out. If I had to go back
in time I don’t know," he added.

Students echoed the feeling that university attitudes have
changed for the better.

"I find most people relatively accepting," said undeclared
freshman Matthew McCarthy. "I expect people to respect my identity,
orientation or whatever word you want to put on it in the same way
I respect them," he said. "By and large, I think that’s what
happens at UCLA."

Usually absent from campus chatter are the "fag" jokes and
insensitivity that relentlessly dog many homosexuals in society,
students said.

"I’ve never actually encountered homophobia at UCLA," Quick
said. "But I come from a small town where rocks were thrown at me,
and I’m scared as hell to go back."

Yet not all students said they feel the need to participate in
the planned activities.

"National Coming Out Day is a … little too political for my
tastes," McCarthy said. "Shoving one aspect of your identity down
everyone’s throat is very self-limiting. You’re not going to
convince anybody of anything (and) you’re not going to change
anyone’s mind.

"My sexuality is one aspect of a pretty complex person. I
wouldn’t celebrate that one aspect anymore than I would celebrate
having green eyes," McCarthy added.

Other campus community members said they see a strong need for
activism. The fight to gain health benefits for same-sex domestic
partners and to challenge UCLA’s funding of the Reserve Officer
Training Corps (ROTC) program on campus are two of the important
issues cited by activists.

Many people said UCLA’s yearly $100,000 to $150,000 funding of
the ROTC program violates the university’s anti-discriminatory
policy because openly gay, lesbian or bisexual individuals cannot
be commissioned into the military ­ the main reason behind
completing the ROTC program.

The fact that the ROTC program still exists at UCLA is
appalling, said Audrey Woods, a fourth year dance major in her
coming out statement to The Bruin. "Their stance on homosexuality
is so outdated."

While ROTC officials declined to comment, UCLA administrators
did.

"There are some people who are going to be concerned as long as
ROTC is on campus," said Carlotta Mellon, assistant vice chancellor
of community and governmental relations. "There has been concern
expressed by the gay and lesbian community about funding for ROTC
programs as well as the existence of ROTC on campus."

Administrators said the university has taken every measure to
comply with its nondiscrimination policy.

"The chancellor has stated that there will be no discrimination
in ROTC programs, (and that) there will be open access to courses
so that anybody can enroll in the courses offered through the
various military programs," Mellon said. "Many people have an
appreciation for the chancellor’s openmindedness."

"What UCLA cannot do is control the commissioning of officers.
ROTC does that," she added.

Estimates put the number of UCLA gay, lesbian and bisexual
students at 10 percent of the campus population. That equates to
more than 3,000 members of the student body. But many agree that
there are still UCLA students, staff and faculty who remain locked
in the closet.

"I hope that (National Coming Out Day) will make more people
comfortable and realize that there are so many queer people on
campus and that it’s OK to be gay," said fourth-year English
student Laurie Howarter.

People who think they are in the closet by themselves are not
alone, said third year communication studies student Michelle
Stone. "There’s power in numbers and a lot of people don’t realize
how many gay, lesbian and bisexual people are out there."

Everybody on campus has a friend ­ probably a close friend
­ who’s gay, lesbian or bisexual, but 90 percent of these
people probably don’t know it, Stone said.

"It’s sad that those people don’t realize that every time they
let a gay joke go by without saying anything or every time they
make a gay joke themselves, they’re probably talking about someone
they care about."

Church rifts quell clergy in ‘Demon’ at Doolittle

Church rifts quell clergy in ‘Demon’ at Doolittle

By Jennifer Richmond

Daily Bruin Staff

Different views often cause upheaval and tension. But when there
is a serious difference of opinion among members of the church’s
hierarchy, a type of genocide occurs within its walls.

In the Royal National Theatre Company’s award-winning production
of David Hare’s "Racing Demon," seasoned priests get pushed out
through a variety of hurtful circumstances that surprise audience
members and pull them into the shocking plot of new ideas
overtaking old theories.

The Rev. Lionel Espy (Oliver Ford Davies) has been with the
church for well over 20 years and in that time his views about
Christ have changed. While he still believes in the Lord and
worships him daily, Lionel doesn’t feel Christ is the answer for
everyone. He trusts that some people just need the caring ear of a
priest without being preached at.

His friends, the Rev. Donald "Streaky" Bacon (Adrian
Scarborough) and the Rev. Harry Henderson (Michael Bryant), know
he’s not as theological as the church desires, but they cherish his
friendship, his views and his unquestionable love for the
church.

So, when the bright-eyed Rev. Tony Ferris (Adam Kotz) enters the
scene, convinced that Lionel’s ideas are hampering church
attendance, sides are taken and the witch hunt begins.

Davies’ Lionel is caring and gentle. His overflowing love for
the church creates a bond with the audience. It sees a man
dedicated to his work. His interest in helping people creates the
same caring bond with the audience that his character creates with
Harry and Streaky. It’s a feeling of friendship and understanding
that has further impact later when Lionel loses everything.

This gentle caring is white compared to the black darkness that
envelops Kotz’s Tony. He’s so caught up in educating the Christian
people and enlightening them about the teachings of Jesus Christ
that Tony fails to see their real problems.

When Stella Marr (Joy Richardson) says flat-out that she doesn’t
need Tony or his help with her abusive marriage, he’s convinced
she’s just scared and that with the teachings of God everything
will be perfect again. He can’t see that prayer isn’t what she
wants. All she wants is someone to talk to when she’s lost. Someone
to believe in her and pray for her. Someone to tell her that even
after everything, God still loves her. Tony doesn’t give that
assurance. Lionel does.

Obsessed to the point of evangelical, Kotz’s Tony is so caught
up in Jesus’ message he can’t see what’s really important ­
life. As long as Tony can get his word out to the community that’s
all that matters; who it hurts in the process is of little concern.
Although convincing in his portrayal, the audience finds itself
slowly hating Tony because of his hurtful actions toward a man
who’s out to hurt no one.

As hard as Tony tries to get Lionel dismissed, he too keeps
hitting walls. Streaky and Harry value Lionel’s views and his
caring for the community. Both stand behind him 100 percent. But,
as with all things, when push comes to shove they really have no
pull. Harry is in fact forced to leave the church.

When Lionel rushes in happily spouting that he did just as Harry
suggested, he receives a half-hearted congrats and the terrible
news that "Harry’s leaving." While Harry packs Lionel realizes he
has no chance and nowhere left to turn. His best friend has been
forced out, too. Both he and the audience know this is the
beginning of the end. His outpouring of emotion as Harry says his
goodbyes pulls at the audience’s heartstrings. But the final blow
comes moments later.

A shaken Lionel returns to his forgotten wife with a gift. Her
rejection of both his loving attention coming "too late" and the
gift left untouched on his desk creates an overflow of sympathy for
a man abandoned in a time of desperate need.

Davies’ Lionel becomes a broken man with nowhere left to turn
but his God; and even there, no loving response comes. Within the
closing lines the audience witnesses a man torn between his
feelings of the "right way" to preach and what he believes is right
for him and his community.

Because his concern for others is concentrated strictly on
helping, Lionel has no way to help himself. Confident in both
promises and his colleagues, Lionel is blind-sided by the
aggression that hits him head on. He and the audience are caught in
a fight as old as time. And with that fight comes hate for the
enemy. Tony’s enemy is Lionel. Lionel’s enemy is not face-specific.
The two are butting heads and taking sides, fighting a war with no
winners and forcing the audience to decide who or what they
believe. As Stella asks God at one point, "How can you fight
without hate?" There is no answer.

STAGE: "Racing Demon." Written by David Hare. Directed by
Richard Eyre. Starring: Oliver Ford Davies, Adam Kotz, Adrian
Scarborough, Michael Bryant. Running through Oct. 23 at the UCLA
James A. Doolittle Theatre. Performs Tuesday through Saturday at 8
p.m., Sundays at 7 p.m., with matinees Saturday and Sunday at 2
p.m. TIX: $15-50. For info. call: (213) 365-3500.

Singer DeMent effortlessly confronts emotion

Singer DeMent effortlessly confronts emotion

Gifted songwriter brings honesty, talent, elegance to country
music

By Michael Tatum

My father died a year ago today

Rooster started crowing when they carried Dad away

There beside my mother, in the living room I stood

With my brothers and my sisters knowin’ Dad was gone for
good

Well, I stayed at home long enough just to lay him in the
ground

And then I caught a plane to do a show up north in Detroit
town

Because I’m older now and I’ve got no time to cry.

­ "No Time to Cry," Iris DeMent

When most rock music fans think of great songwriters of the past
25 years, they usually think of someone like Bob Dylan or Elvis
Costello ­ two men who have made their names on lyrics that
strive to be "poetic," purposefully loaded with dense wordplay and
convoluted irony. It’s an approach that more than a few talents and
a great many hacks have attempted to copy.

Iris DeMent stands as the rare, gifted songwriter who can show
that strategy for the sham that it can sometimes be. While others
make a point in dodging their emotions and couching their true
feelings in literary corn, DeMent (performing two shows at the
Troubadour today and tomorrow) allows herself no such defenses.
It’s the rare person who can express herself with such directness
in this day and age without decorating what she has to say with
excuses and pretenses, but DeMent does it ­ and unlike lesser
mortals who tend to force such conceits, she makes it seem
effortless and natural.

"It’s the only way I know how to write," she told The Bruin
during a phone interview, "it’s not really something I set out to
do consciously. I just prefer a straightforward way of expressing
things … I’ve always been drawn to music written in that style:
Merle Haggard, Johnny Cash, Lefty Frizzel. I’ve always preferred
lyrics that aren’t really a great effort to unravel."

Like the above country legends named, she also shares an
affinity for open, honest music. The songs on her two records,
"Infamous Angel" and "My Life" (both on Warner Bros., the first a
reissue of an independent release) have little to do with the
Hollywood gone to Nashville high jinx of most of the so-called
artists ­ Vince Gill, Travis Tritt, Billy Ray Cyrus, to name a
few ­ that seem to hog up the contemporary country
marketplace.

Her music could just as easily have been recorded 30 years ago;
her lovely, heartbreaking voice reverberates with a timeless
Appalachian spirituality, recalling only the greatest country
chanteuses: Loretta Lynn, Kitty Wells, the early Dolly Parton. Her
unadorned and unaffected arrangements, a sad reminder of what
country music sounded like before it sold itself to the city, are
ironically what prevent her music from being played on most
mainstream country radio stations. As journalist Michael McCall
pointedly notes: "She’s just too country for Nashville tastes these
days."

When asked about the state of country music today, DeMent says
that much of it ­ with the exceptions of people like Dwight
Yoakam, Mary Chapin Carpenter and Lucinda Williams ­ strikes
her as being largely false. "A lot of it seems out there only to
make money, though to be fair, that’s true with a lot of music
today, not just country music. I’m not adverse to making money,
that’s just not my goal. Even if I didn’t sell a hell of a lot of
records, I’d get more out of creating things that made me happy."
Does that mean she would forsake sales for the long haul, a piece
of history? "Oh definitely!"

But DeMent doesn’t make "keeping the faith" a deliberate
undertaking, just as her songwriting doesn’t spring out of a
premeditated scientific formula ­ like her emotional
directness, the integrity of her music comes instinctively: "You
just love what you do and do it," she states. "I’ve never had the
desire to ‘keep with tradition,’ just to keep doing what satisfies
me."

For a primer on what satisfies DeMent, look no further than her
album "My Life," which, judging from the seemingly unanimously
glowing reviews from critics, satisfies plenty of other people as
well. The vulnerable breakup songs, "You’ve Done Nothing Wrong" and
"Calling For You," are unique in the way that DeMent never sinks to
self pity ­ she shares the responsibility for the failures in
her relationships, without resorting to the callousness and hollow
anger that mars other such songs. When she sings, "Just because I’m
hurting, that don’t mean that you’ve something wrong," she intends
no hidden meaning ­ she means it. Others, like "Childhood
Memories" and the intensely moving "No Time To Cry" focus on
recollections of her father and the pain she felt after his
death.

Much has been made in the press of DeMent’s breaking away from
her fundamentalist Christian upbringing, something which she
clarifies when the subject is raised. Unlike others from similar
backgrounds, she neither regrets or resents her experiences. Though
she has since adopted different views than those of her parents and
their church, Dement in fact views their influence as being largely
positive.

"In many ways I think I benefitted. I certainly gained my love
of music at church," she remembers fondly, claiming that whatever
talent with which she might have been born certainly blossomed from
the Sundays to which she always looked forward.

Which of course leads to the matter of live performance,
something reputedly to have made DeMent nervous in the past. Not
that she really has anything to worry about ­ though her
concerts consist solely of her and her guitar, she doesn’t seem to
need much else. According to legend, when she sang in bars and
clubs early in her career, her voice proved so powerful in its
clarity, the stage managers elected to turn off her microphone.

So now that she’s in a position to tour with a larger band, why
not? Or, why not record an album on her own? "A lot of people ask
me that," she says. "I do like playing by myself. But the attitude
I bring to a live show is to do something that I don’t feel I can
do on record. I could perform on stage with a band, or vice versa,
but I think a lot of things would be lost."

One gets the feeling that DeMent might be a tad over-critical of
her talents, and even she admits that while she’s appreciative of
the attention thrust upon her, it nevertheless strikes her as "a
little weird." For all of the depth of her work, she still finds
the amount of time given to analyzing her work amazing, and even a
little intimidating. "I don’t find I have more or less difficulty
writing than I used to," she says, but adds with a laugh, "I’m more
aware of having an audience that likes hearing good songs!"

But that’s where part of her appeal lies. As she sings in the
beginning of one of her most lovely songs, "Sweet is the melody, so
hard to come by." While it may seem mysterious where her muse is
and when she’ll strike again, she makes the beauty and grandeur of
her art, so undeniable in its elegance and grace, seem so easy.

L.A. Phil: It’s the new style

L.A. Phil: It’s the new style

Setting 20th-century pace for rest of season, Los Angeles
Philharmonic blazes through Stravinsky, darts gracefully through
Prokofiev, teases audience through Lutoslawski

By John Mangum

Still feeling the rush from a recent European tour, the Los
Angeles Philharmonic blazed through a program of uneven quality
Thursday evening at the Dorothy Chandler Pavilion.

Under the baton of their Music Director Esa-Pekka Salonen, the
orchestra sounded better than ever. Salonen’s opening night program
combined two 20th-century favorites with a work by Philharmonic
favorite Witold Lutoslawski.

The program opened with Russian composer Sergei Prokofiev’s
"Classical" Symphony, an agreeable piece overflowing with tunes to
whistle.

Prokofiev said of the symphony, which he completed in 1917, "It
seems to me that if Haydn had lived today he would have retained
his own style while accepting something of the new at the same
time." Prokofiev combined the restrained humor and grace of the
idiom in which Haydn, an 18th-century composer, worked with the
angular momentum characteristic of 20th-century music. The work
defies all notions that classical music from this century sounds
loud and atonal.

The Philharmonic brought rough-edged elegance to the first two
movements and romped athletically through the gavotte and finale.
Warm playing and crisp ensemble, coupled with Salonen’s well-chosen
speeds, yielded a buoyant opening to what promised to be an
interesting evening.

The next piece on the program elicited the audience’s curiosity.
While most opening nights usually cough up a good deal of Beethoven
and Tchaikovsky, Salonen likes to evade convention.

This time his evasion took the form of Lutoslawski’s Piano
Concerto. Written in 1987, the work has yet to prove itself the way
200-year-old pieces have.

Lutoslawski, who passed away last year, maintains his position
in Los Angeles because of the advocacy Salonen gives the Polish
composer’s works. The Philharmonic not only invited Lutoslawski to
premiere his Fourth Symphony here recently, they also recorded it
for Sony Classical.

In its second outing with the Philharmonic, the Piano Concerto
was well played by the orchestra and pianist Paul Crossley, but
lacked many of the qualities that make great music interesting.

Some of the best things in the piece, like the concentrated
cadenza for the piano which opened the third section of the work,
were compromised by more pedestrian effects, like the quirky
percussion dialogue toward the close of the work.

The audience reaction to the Concerto ranged from boredom to
frenzied excitement. One woman leapt to her feet, furiously
applauding maestro, pianist and orchestra. Most others appreciated
the effort of the musicians but didn’t quite know what to think of
the new work. Beethoven or Tchaikovsky would have proved much more
enjoyable.

Too bad the audience wasn’t more like the first one that heard
the next work on the program, Igor Stravinsky’s ballet "The Rite of
Spring." At its premiere in 1913, Paris audiences rioted, throwing
things at the dancers and musicians and just generally behaving
poorly.

Thursday’s audience sat demurely and listened to Stravinsky’s
onslaught as though it was the tamest Mozart. They looked like the
people from the Simpsons in the new THX trailer.

Recognized for his interpretive genius when it comes to
Stravinsky, Salonen lived up to everyone’s expectations. His
Stravinsky rocked.

The orchestra produced a dynamic range that went from near
silence in the ballet’s introduction to a deafening roar in the
louder sections. The musicians played with an attention to detail
that produced a near perfect performance.

The evening ended well enough to promise that what lies ahead in
the Philharmonic’s season will never fail to stimulate.

The Philharmonic avoids war horses, never playing anything not
written in the last hundred years. Salonen’s allegiance to this
century brings some of its masterpieces to the Music Center with
nothing so equivocal as the Lutoslawski Piano Concerto.

He directs his orchestra in Viennese composer Gustav Mahler’s
Third Symphony (Oct. 12-15). The women of the L.A. Master Chorale
and the L.A. Children’s Chorus join the musicians to fulfill
Mahler’s gargantuan performance requirements for one of the longest
symphonies ever composed.

Violinist Julian Rachlin appears with Salonen and the orchestra
to play Prokofiev’s First Violin Concerto (Oct. 20-22). The program
also includes the Five Pieces for Orchestra by Arnold Schoenberg,
disciple of Mahler and contributor to the musical life of UCLA
during the middle of the century.

Another notable contributor to music at UCLA shares the program
with Salonen at the Philharmonic’s 75th anniversary concert. Zubin
Mehta led the orchestra in a legendary concert in front of Royce
Hall to protest the Vietnam War during his tenure as music
director.

He reunites with the orchestra Oct. 24 for a repetition of the
first program the Philharmonic played 75 years ago. Mehta opens the
concert Dvorák’s popular "New World" Symphony. Salonen takes
the helm for the second half of the evening, steering the orchestra
through Liszt’s "Les préludes," Weber’s beloved overture to
his opera "Oberon" and Chabrier’s vibrant symphonic poem
"España."

Acclaimed conductors Franz Welser-Möst and Simon Rattle
also appear with the orchestra in a season which brings some great
artists to Los Angeles

Opening night provided a good introduction to the season for
audiences who can look forward to exploring masterpieces from the
20th century.

CONCERT: L.A. Philharmonic conducted by Esa-Pekka Salonen with
pianist Paul Crossley. At the Dorothy Chandler Pavilion. Oct. 6, 7
and 9. TIX: $50, $41, $36, $28, $22, $16, $9.50, $6. Students with
ID $6 two hours before performance.